Tuesday, July 4, 2017

What Am I Doing with This Man?

Victoria Allen signed up for a past life reading with me, and one of her questions for me was why she often looked at her husband, whom she loved, and wondered what they were doing together. She was not entirely sure this was the man she was supposed to be with even though it was a good marriage, and wondered if there were a past life that would explain this feeling. Here is the first lifetime I saw for her. After the reading is her feedback.

In the first past life I am seeing you are in a culture where marriages are arranged by the couples’ families consulting with astrologers. Marriages have happened like this in many civilizations, and is probably not a bad idea actually, considering how many marriages fail these days. You were in a situation where you had very little choice in the matter of who you married, and this was difficult because you were not in a culture which allowed women to protest this kind of thing. Yet you decided you absolutely did not want to marry the man who had been picked out for you without actually knowing him. Being introduced formally, you saw him face to face, and thought he was quite ugly. As you were a very beautiful woman, you thought that you would like them to try again, please. You did not know how you could possibly come to love such an ugly man. In other words, you did not know how you could ever make love to a man who looked like that. You did not quite have the concept of romantic love, that was not part of your culture. But you did think there should be some kind of immediate attraction. In most cultures, romantic love was known to be a thing that was short-lived, and that if you wished to be happy, you would not marry for that alone. Romantic love was something children played around with, but adults did not make life-long decisions based on something so transitory.



Feeling certain that you could not have a happy marriage you decided to refuse him. Yet he really was the best choice for you astrologically, and you would have got past the way he looked quickly. What you did not realize, because you were a virgin, was that the way he smelled, how his skin felt, and simple sexual chemistry mattered more than his looks. You would truly have been compatible in that way. It was such a missed opportunity!

Your Souls decided to reincarnate this time to be together, because you were supposed to be last time, only this time you are not quite as compatible. Marrying him was something that you had agreed to do in that lifetime, before you ever incarnated. Because you did not, you came back to do it in this lifetime, to balance the karma of not having kept your agreement to marry him previously. And this time you came to actually be in love with him, more in the way you thought you should be in that prior life. Yet there are things missing that you would have had in that prior one. And you will just have to decide if this is someone you want to stay with, or if you feel that the karma is fulfilled, and if not you may feel later that it is. You will know.

So that is what you are doing with this man in this lifetime, and why you sometimes wonder if you belong with him. That is a feeling that is carrying over from the prior life – that you do not belong together. It may very well be that once you hear this, you will no longer have doubts. Hearing about it may just heal you so that the feeling does not carry over any more. Hearing about a past life often heals unexpected things in odd ways. And then you feel like, oh, yeah. I am supposed to be with this guy. Because this time I want to be.

Victoria's Feedback on the Reading:

Sorry I did not give feedback earlier, I tend to be bad at giving feedback.  I thought you would like to know that I actually saw the vision at the same time you were remotely connecting to me.  I didn't hear the narration, I just saw the image. Also, I did not see all the lives, just the first one that meant the most to me.  At around 4 am in the morning I found myself coming out of deep sleep and felt my eyes flutter uncontrollably and head feel pressurized as I saw an image with vibrant emerald green colors and a beautiful young Asian female being walked into a room with two people on either side of her, as if she was being revealed for the first time after coming of age.  

She did not appear happy as if she was forced to be there.  The image was brief because I got so excited knowing you must have been doing my reading.  As my conscious mind took over I found that the image faded and was gone.  As I went through my day I told myself that maybe it was a vivid dream, but by 2 pm that same day you emailed me my reading I knew my vision was not a dream.  As I listened to your reading I did not see the image but did feel the same uncontrollable flutter with my eyes as I listened to your reading.  I felt tears flow down my face and my heart feel broken during the first reading.  

Apparently, in that life, I rejected an arranged marriage with my current husband in this life.  However, in this life, I love my husband very much and he loves me but sometimes in the beginning or every now and then I get feelings asking why we are together.  We don't argue much and get along well and have 2 beautiful girls.  I know I am with the man I was meant to be with but never understood why those feelings popped up.  After listening to your reading I now understand why I questioned us in the beginning and on occasion.  He is so loving and caring and has such a big heart; I'm glad I chose to come into this life to experience love with him.  Even there were times I had questions, I always had a greater feeling that I was always with the man I was meant to marry.  I had come across your audiobook over the Christmas holiday and wondered whether you could answer my question and I'm very glad and thankful to you.  I guess I should have emailed you earlier but I tend to be bad with feedback.

On a side note, I had been able to use a popular self-regression method involving a prayer on myself before, but whenever I asked this question my guides always told me I was not ready to know.  Maybe because I would not have believed it if they told me that I rejected him in that life.  It's funny how our guides will only let you know what they feel you are ready to know or is important for you to know.

As for the other readings, I'm currently at a crossroads on what I want to do with my career.  The overwhelming message is I need to do it and am strong enough to do it.  It's like the extra nudge I need to light the fire in me. 

Again thank you and many blessings,

Victoria

Thursday, April 27, 2017

Can We Be Born with Mental Illness?

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I consider myself an expert in past lives, having done thousands of past life readings for my clients over a 20 year span of time, and having written two #1 best-seller books on the subject. Before today I'd have said resoundingly, "Absolutely not! No one is born with mental illness, sure, they can be born with a tendency to mental illness, but not already mentally ill!" Looks like I was wrong. Here is why.

"However, the degree to which these children show heightened emotion in recounting these apparent memories is a tipoff, to me, that something truly significant is going on. A boy like James Leininger shows all the hallmarks of PTSD at age two; why should he? We can get a sense for the answer by realizing how fear – that most elemental of feelings – puts our entire being on red alert. The pupils dilate, muscles are tensed, and respiration is increased as the body prepares to fight, flee, or freeze. Meanwhile, the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis springs into action by releasing a cascade of hormones that serve to marshal bodily energy. If we are indeed in mortal peril, our entire bodymind tenses like a spring ready to snap. Our senses are honed to a fine edge: we notice every detail that could affect our existence."



Author Michael Jawer
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Yet the ultimate unbelievable, but impossible to ignore or to dismiss, accounts are to be found in Return to Life: Extraordinary Cases of Children Who Remember Past Lives.  

The perfect example is the two-year-old "Mother" asking for help finding her children.

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This book was published in 2013 by Jim Tucker, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Virginia. He follows in the footsteps of his mentor, the late Ian Stevenson, who for decades scrupulously investigated cases in which young children around the world. These kids had spontaneously recounted, often in stunning detail, memories that clearly were, or at least seemed to be, about someone else’s life. Most of the time the person the child remembered being had died violently or unnaturally. In one such instance, a two-and-a-half-year old girl became distraught over her inability to find ‘her’ children. She tearfully and repeatedly asked for help finding them. When her parents asked questions about these children and where she last saw them, she described ‘her’ having lost her life in a road accident. She never saw them again and knew as would any mother that she needed to find them. 

Between them, Drs. Stevenson and Tucker have amassed in excess of 2,500 cases. It is amazing to read that 70% of them fit this pattern.  


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Sunday, March 12, 2017

Are 9/11 Souls Being Reincarnated as Children? Four Examples....


Are 9/11 Souls Being Reincarnated as Children? 4 Examples That Might Make You a Believer!
Recently there have been several news articles about children that seem to remember being present either as workers or first responders during the World Trade Center (WTC) collapse. Whether you believe in reincarnation or not, these are very compelling stories!
One 4 year old, who has been talking about the 9/11 attacks for about one year, had a surprising response to his parents’ question, asking him what he wanted to be when he grew up.
“I don’t just want to be a firefighter, I have always been and already am a firefighter! I used to get up in the morning, go to work and in the evenings I would come home and take off my fire proximity suit.”
Another 4 year old has claimed to have been a worked in the WTC. When he saw a photo of the WTC in National Geographic magazine, he pointed out the window where his office was located. In doing so, he said, “That’s where I worked, Mama,” and “Mom, I’m still buried there.” He also claims to have felt the building fall and provided other details about his experience that day.
One of the more detailed accounts is by Cade, a young boy who began experiencing chilling nightmares of 9/11 at the age of 3. Details he gave included the name of a 40 year old victim (Robert E. Pattison), a businessman who worked on the 110th floor and could see the Statue of Liberty from his office window.
He spoke at an early age about planes falling from the sky and also of them crashing into buildings. Although several of the many facts Cade provided did not check out, some information did, enough that his parents do believe that Cade was there in some way on that fateful day.
Recently, I interviewed a woman that shared with me her experiences with 8 year old son, who has been talking about what she believes is 9/11. In addition to nightmares of dying in a raging fire, he named a co-worker that he was trying courageously to save, but was blocked by the ceiling caving in.
Her son is certain he worked on the 54th floor of the WTC. Most of the information she shared with me was from his earlier years. Now that he is 8, she felt that he might soon begin to forget these memories as they are replaced by his own.
While these are all fascinating cases, the challenge has been proving that they are, in fact, tales of reincarnation.
Just as we awaken from a dream and sometimes struggle to correctly remember the details, these children’s memories may have understandable gaps or errors. Overall, though, it is some compelling evidence that suggests that reincarnation exists.
What do you think? Have these and other cases you’ve heard about convinced you that reincarnation is real? Please share your thoughts below in the comment section!